Family Feuds. Church ugliness. Workplace battles. Neighbor wars. What causes feuds?

James 4:1 What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? 2 You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel. You do not have, because you do not ask. 3 You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.

The spark that ignites a feud is SELFISHNESS:

Relational tensions leading to a feud:

Fuel the Feud: Kill the Relationship