Our natural tendency is self more, others less. Goal: Think of self, less while thinking of others, more.
Philippians 2:4 Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.
To be selfless is to be concerned more with the needs and wishes of others than with one’s own needs. It does not mean “I do not think of self” or “think I am less than others” but I think of myself less: others focused
Jesus is our example of “self less”